Help for Tango Dancer Tom Kamrath, Austin, Texas



Dear readers and dancers, I'm putting the word out to ask for help for a friend and fellow tango dancer, Tom Kamrath, in Austin, Texas, who is in urgent need. If you've ever danced in Austin, then you probably met Tom, who is such a foundational member of our community. Any help, even just spreading the word, is deeply appreciated. (This website has been created by Lacy, his daughter.)

Tom Kamrath - http://www.tomkamrath.org/

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My teacher's words come back to me.

"You dance too small,
     too soft,
          too quiet."


A year ago I could, and did, claim lack of technique, lack of lessons, for dancing that way. So I studied, took lessons, practiced. Experimented.

I danced bigger ("with more expression!")
I danced harder ("more dynamically!")

For awhile.

While I will probably always be able to point to lack of good technique in these things, after all I never stop learning and developing as a dancer, these days technique isn't really the at the heart of the issue.

Dancing bigger seems to, except for rare occasions, make me feeling like I'm wearing someone else's clothes. It's okay for playing dress-up, but it's not really me.

I recently watched a video of myself dancing with a leader I've danced with a long time. For once, I managed to dance without caring about the camera. This gentleman has been dancing with me since my very first dance three years ago - and I'm sure that contributed to my relaxed state.  I danced for him even though we had the entire room to ourselves. We had an audience. My dancing was quiet, soft and small. But it felt right. I felt like me.

It felt like home.