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For tango and for life:



From Brene Brown, on Every Day Courage

"the people who matter the most are the ones right in front of us.
. . .
It means not glancing over someone's shoulder to see if someone more important or interesting has walked in.

It means connecting.

It means vulnerability and engagement.

I'm here and I'm all in. You matter to me. Our connection matters to me. It's why we are here."

Comments

Ryan Kinal said…
Mmm. Yes. Absolutely yes.

Every so often, I catch myself thinking of other things or people while dancing. And it's not good.
March 8, 2012 at 1:21 PM
Cinderella said…
I find it so much easier to do when I'm dancing. In everyday life I tend to forget. Thanks for the reminder that it is important for both: for and life.
March 9, 2012 at 6:48 AM
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